My Off day and my Views to the movie Hitch (starring Will (ME) Smith)

I have been having this dry cough for the past few days and i have problems sleeping due to this ailment....i met up with guna on friday nite after work for tea at bld 925 and we had DoJo Talks... i got back home before midnight and got to bed by 1 am ...

Saturday seems like a slow tiring day for me ....

i went down to northpoint to get myself a card reader and took some passport size photograhs for my G50 form .... i was inform by prem that jovin and gang wanted to go watch Ray Charles but i didnt hear from him after ... thank god i was meeting the guys... we went to play pool and chilled out at Mc cafe till 2 in the morning .... i saw alot of americans in town and at yishun, i guess the US navy is in town... other then that i had an peaceful and somewat uneventful day...

Sunday, Damn tired coz i didnt have a good sleep the nite before coz of my cough...
I met up with a friend and watched Hitch.. after a date doctor who helps balless men to get the gal of their dreams.. it reminded me of the kind of mistakes i made in the past while i was dating ... In the movie, i learnt a few things or should i say it enforced the past lessons that i had learnt .. here are a few examples

1) Give her space (example : call her after a few days from the first time u got her number once u get to talk to her or dont always call her, she might think ur obessess (some gals like it most gals i think) )

2) Be good and nice to her best friend (it will help in the long run and if her firends like u, she likes u )

3) u see a gal somewhere and u walk up to her throw out a pick up line .... firstly u better have a good one... secondly, u gotta be sincere (gals are like metal detectors to insincerity).. thirdly,be a good date and send her home(unless she insist of going back home alone on a cab then u'll know ur not the one) or u could use the normal apporach of saying Hi I'm William blah blah blah ...

oh yah make the first move, ask her name ask her number ask if she is seeing anyone (be subtul)

with all this being said, i am still single and learning the art of Seduction... i know my problems layin my shyness towardsthe girl i like... i am lost for words when i see her and i do the same mistakes like other men do...

it brought back memories to one of my very first lessons ... the story goes like this

it was my first time wanting to ask a gal her name and i was with my friends ... i told them my problem and they kept encourging me to go over and so i did in the worst kind of circumstances... she was with her friends and i went over and introduced my self and ask if i could get to know her... at that moment, that 5 - 10 secs of silence, the surpirsed look on her friends faces, that silence made things akward hahahahah and wat i got from her was a NO THANKS hahahahah (thats my version,i am not too sure abt hers) ... i smile and thanked her for time and walked as gracefully away as i could... hahahahha ... cursing my self along the way, asking my self wat went wrong, learning along the way back to my firends, telling them wat had happened... they laughed , they joked but they told me that i had one less regret and that i at less had the courage to go up to her ... and even though it didnt work out i lived that moment

wat i am trying to say is that ... timing is very important, u create your own opportunities and u have only that one chance, one moment to prove worthy ... BUt dont ever live with regrets like i used have, i REPEAT dont ever ever live without regrets ...

i now try my very best to live my life with no regret and i look forward to trying new things and meeting new ppl ... with that all being said... my advice u ppl out there who read this ...
watch Doctor HItch