Engagment party

Yesterday i went to suresh ROM held at quality hotel down at balistier rd.... it was a traditional indian engagment cum ROM..and next year this time they will be holding the indian wedding.. this was my first time attending a indian engagment function and it was an eye opener... afew of my friends were there too and we were happy to see him settle down...it was a love marrige...

but it seems that alot of my indian friends will be settling for a match makin/arrange marrige thingy... set up by their parnets or relatives... and just last week afew of my friends had proposals.. their parnets are worried that their sons are getting old and want to see them get married soon... my god.... in the 21st century and ppl are stil doing that....

i ask afew of my friends would they go for match making setup by their relatives.... and to my surprise they told me that they wouldnt mind but not at the moment coz of their career..

they tell me its not like they will get married stright away after meeting the girl .. they'll just date a while and see weather it will hit it off or not...

mind u... my friends are good looking average joes with style.. and it seems they are too busy to find or meet one.. maybe its because of the job they are in which unables them to meet ppl.. or they're jsut not brothered at the mean time...

well having said so much.. i belive arrange meetings ispractical... i mean arrage marriages or match making.. ppl these days are so busy with work that they dont find time to meet girls and guys... thats y there is friendster, wholivesnearyou and other match making or friend finding services are popping out every where... ppl are actively praticipating in it... they wanna meet more ppl but sometimes they meet so many ppl they dont know who or wat they are looking for...

as i have said before "u dont go looking for love, love will look for u" as for me i am still thinking abt arrange marrages or match making .. my relatives have been asking my mom weather i have a gf or not.. and when they heard that i am still single they ask if i wanted to know someone.... hahhahah ... wat is happening to my friends is happening to me now... but i dont think i will go for it for the time being... in future who knows.. but definately not at in the near future.....